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Is Fighting Back the Only Way to Make Bullying Stop?
We’ve all heard people recount stories of how the quiet kids snapped one day in class after months of torment from the class bully and lashed out, put the other kids on their butt and there in that single defining moment was the last time someone picked on them. It happens. We all know it […]
The Most Affective Strategy When Faced with a Bully
We all know that bullies thrive on a reaction. When they can see their words and actions are having an impact it fuels them and they keep going. They thrive on feeling powerful and dominant. As a result we often tell kids to not show they are bothered by what is being said or done. […]
Does my child need to toughen up?
There’s a fine line between encouragement and pushing too hard and quite often you’ve no idea where that line is until it’s too late and you’ve already crossed it. The anxiety comes in waves, quite often in the wee hours of the night when you’ve time to think and the thinking turns into anxiety fuelled […]
I don’t want to leave you Mummy
We’re at the time of year again when kids are dreading the return to school. As parents we come to expect the pleads to stay at home, the ongoing illnesses and the list of reasons why they shouldn’t be made to go. Although we know they’ll love being there within 10 minutes of arriving it […]
Frenemies – the least recognised form of bullying
We know about punching and kicking but the form of bullying that is becoming most common and far harder to detect are Frenemies. As with other forms of abuse it’s becoming far more common for our kids to not be bullied by the bigger, older kids, but in fact by those closest to them, their […]
Why Aren’t The School Doing More?
What is the biggest complaint I hear from parents? The school haven’t stopped the bullying. It’s always an interesting one because some schools actually don’t do enough while others are doing everything within their power. Sometimes we are so caught up in our fear and anxiety over what has happened that we aren’t seeing the […]
No. 1 Sign A Child Is Being Bullied
Bullying nowadays isn’t so much about stealing dinner money or damaging belongings, it’s more about destroying self-esteem. Where as parents could recognise bullying by ‘lost’ items now we need to look further for signs that our kids are being bullied. As much as we hope they’d tell us if they are, I’ve found more children […]
Will I make it worse?
Let me set the scene, your child tells you they’re being bullied and you react with anger and panic. You demand to know what has happened and get ready to take action but then you freeze – What if you make it worse? What if you get it wrong and it results in your kids dealing with unimaginable consequences? […]
How to talk with the school without turning into a blubbering wreck or a raging animal.
We all know how it feels. You have nothing to do with schools between leaving one yourself and returning when you have children yourself. So many of us still feel intimidated just walking into the school, we instantly revert to our 6 year old selves with our fingers crossed that we won’t get told of […]
How Can I Tell If My Child’s Being Bullied?
One of the most common concerns I hear from parents is they wouldn’t know if their child was being bullied. This is a valid concern for a couple of reasons. The first is that not every child talks to their parents, so how would you know what’s going on at school if they aren’t in […]
Help, They Won’t Tell Me What’s Happened!
Are you worried sick that your child is keeping things from you? You can see how unhappy they are, you’re pretty sure they are being bullied but they just won’t tell you anything? You desperately want to help them yet there’s nothing you can do until they tell you what is going on. This is […]
Anger is GOOD!
I hear from parents all the time that are worried when their child is so angry at being bullied. I want to say to you what I always say to them… There’s no need to fear your child’s anger. When your child is angry it’s a really GOOD sign! Why? Because it shows they […]
Has Your Child Got a Frenemy?
3 Signs Your Child Has a “Frenemy” & 3 Ways to Deal with it. What is a ‘Frenemy’? A frenemy is someone that appears to be your friend but regularly does things you’d expect from an enemy. In my opinion, they are the worst type of bully because they know you really well + […]
5 Successful Habits That Rebuilt My Daughters Confidence
It’s so damn hard to standby witnessing your child miss out on opportunities, friendship and fun just because they don’t have the confidence to give it a go. We feel helpless and it knocks our confidence too! If you’re looking for ways to actively support your child in building their confidence then this is the […]
6 Steps When Your Child’s Too Scared To Talk
I’ve been there. You know something’s happening but they’re too scared to open up to you. It’s agony watching your child suffer. If only they would talk to you, you could stop worrying and start to help them. But every time you gently coax them into talking they clam up. You can see the barriers […]
The First Step To Overcoming Bullying
Let’s use the example of a baby learning to walk. It doesn’t question whether it can. It doesn’t wait for confirmation that it will work before it tries. It just gives it a go and when that way doesn’t work it tries another. ‘Holding the chair didn’t work but holding mum’s hand does.’ How many […]
Are The School Sweeping It Under The Carpet?
What can you do if the school aren’t doing enough? Nearly every parent I work with has this very same problem. The school aren’t doing enough and are sweeping it under the carpet. Parents are left feeling patronised while their kids are left unsupported and vulnerable. If this is you, please don’t lose hope. Every […]
3 Essential Steps When Approaching The School
Your child’s being bullied at school and you’re about to speak with the teacher. Here are 3 essential steps when approaching the school if you want a successful outcome. 1. Stick to the facts. Understandably you are raging at the moment and desperately worried. You want answers and you want the school to take immediate […]
Has The Bully Moved In With You?
When your child is bullied it takes over your lives. It’s all anyone ever talks about. When you meet with family they all understandably want to know how you’re getting on, when you step into the playground other parents are all concerned for your child and are offering their support, when your child arrives home […]
Beware of the drama seekers
Right now you’re exhausted and desperate for someone to help. You feel alone and yearn for support. That is natural and support is GOOD but beware of the drama seekers. How To Recognise Them. You know the parents in the playground that catch a whiff of something occurring and are in […]
5 Possible Reasons Your Child’s Being Bullied
You’ve wondered day and night why on earth your child is having to deal with this nightmare. You’ve wracked your brains as to what has caused this. Is your child too sensitive? Should you help them toughen up? Maybe they need to physically fight back? But you can’t imagine them ever doing that. Maybe if […]
I’m So Sorry – 9 Things Every Mum Of A Child Being Bullied Needs To Hear
I’m so sorry…. that you’re having to live this nightmare. that your child’s innocent belief that everyone is kind has been stripped away prematurely. that your days are filled with waves of anxiety, only breaking to be filled with overwhelming panic. that you feel completely out of your depth and helpless that you feel alone […]
3 Of The Biggest Bullying Myths Uncovered
1. Bullying is a series of arguments. No. Bullying is when someone intimidates or cause harm, repeatedly and intentionally, to gain control or power over someone else. It is always one-sided. No matter how long an argument lasts, if both parties are contributing to the argument, it’s not bullying. 2. Bullied Kids Need to […]
5 Ways To Stop A Bully
Everyone’s situation is different and every situation needs to be dealt with differently. But, in my experience there are five things that always need to happen to successfully stop bullying from happening. 1. Talk about it. Don’t hide away as if you’ve done something wrong – you haven’t! The shame of being bullied (because […]
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